Don’t Be Fooled By Perfect Pictures On Instagram, Marriage Is Not All Rosy – Etim-Effiong

Buttressing her husband’s point, Toyosi advised that couples must be working together in building a home, noting that it is not the job of a person.

She said, “All hands on deck, one person cannot be building while the other person is watching or even worse, tearing down.

The mother of two then reiterated the essence of a three-stranded cord, the couple and God.

In her words, “God has to be at the centre because “a three-strand cord is not easily broken, both parties must be in ‘Build Mode’; foundation first and then one room after the other. Also.”

 

On what the couple have learnt in the course of their five years marriage, Daniel said, he’s learnt to listen more than to assume, “I’ve learnt to be more patient and to hear what is being said, not what I think is being said”, while Toyosi asserted that she has learnt to compromise and understand that she cannot and shouldn’t have my way all the time. Meaning she can’t always have things her way at all times.

Speaking on their best experiences so far, both Daniel and Toyosi gush about having someone who has their best interests at heart with Daniel going further to state that “I have a beautiful, strong, and godly woman going through life with me.”